TomKat Attend Heath Leger Memorial Service
Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes attending a memorial service held on Saturday for Heath Leger at the Sony lot in L.A. Also in attendance was Sienna Miller, Todd Hayes, Ellen DeGeneres among many others. So what’s their connection to Heath? Katie stared in Dawson’s Creek with Heath’s ex Michelle Williams.
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115 opinions for TomKat Attend Heath Leger Memorial Service
ng
Feb 4, 2008 at 1:08 am
Hollywood is a small town. Sooner or later you run into your ex boyfriend, lover, or husband. It must of been awkward for Cruise and Katie to run into Josh Hartlet especially after people are speculating that either Chris Klein or Josh Harlett are Suri’s real father. And there was Naomi Watts last week at Health’ memorial service. Naomi is a close friend of Nicole Kidman which explains why attended LAST WEEK”S memorial service and not this past weekend. I think these memorial services are in layers. The real close friends were there last week. The not so close friends were there this week.
Battlemama
Feb 4, 2008 at 10:12 am
Honestly, the connection is TomKat are trying to look like caring..associates.
I have a feeling this memorial service was more for PR for those who were not invited to real memorial.
Someone had the good question: WHERE WERE ALL THESE CARING PEOPLE WHEN HEATH WAS DYING AND DOING DRUGS?
Although, they do say in order to get off drugs, the person has to be willing to do it themselves.
ng
Feb 4, 2008 at 10:46 am
This is true that ONE has to be willing to give up drugs, however, there are things as intervention.
I believe that is what happened to Britney Spears.
She was OUT OF CONTROL and her parents FINALLY stepped in to help her get back on track. Where were all these people to help Heath? Sorry, but I don’t buy all these tributes. There is so much hypocritise in Hollywood and image is what drives the majority.
Battlemama
Feb 4, 2008 at 11:03 am
Did you see the pics on dlisted of the two of them leaving the service. TC was holding Katie in support again and she had her hands cupped outwards away from his hands. I reminded me of someone supporting another person who is infirmed and not quite cognizant of what is going on around them.
Let me know what you think.
http://dlisted.com/taxonomy/term/29
ng
Feb 4, 2008 at 11:45 am
I agree. I think not all is well with Katie. She looks ill and not all there. I don’t think its Heath,
I think its her situation that has her this way.
Libraesque2007
Feb 4, 2008 at 12:24 pm
I saw that beyond disturbing picture of him gripping her wrist….HER WRIST!!!! We’ve been saying all along that he clutches onto her in a very abnormal fashion, but that was just…..disturbing
mama…has the autopsy come out that he died of a drug overdose?
Battlemama
Feb 4, 2008 at 12:39 pm
I never said he died from overdose. His drug problem was quite well known, though. There are videos of him doing them and his fiancee (?) left him because of drugs.
Battlemama
Feb 4, 2008 at 12:44 pm
It is disturbing, more so than usual. She is very out of it and I too agree that it is from the situation she married. Even during her promo tours, she looked great on the outside, the clothes and make-up, but even then she was very reserved and, to a certian extent, out of it. I watched that Letterman interview from when she first started dating him and the one now, and she is so reserved and aged now. She is not the carefree young woman who started dating Cruise. Motherhood and marriage don’t age someone that much.
She is just aging fast and it is sad. It don’t recall being married to Cruise ever being so hard on someone.
Battlemama
Feb 4, 2008 at 12:45 pm
Did Cruise clutch Nicole like that?
Vianne
Feb 4, 2008 at 1:15 pm
Has anything changed since then?
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2005/05/25/AR2005052502162.html
Vianne
Feb 4, 2008 at 1:16 pm
B-mama: where are these videos of Heath Ledger doing drugs?
Libraesque2007
Feb 4, 2008 at 1:18 pm
yep it’s true……she has aged considerably. Even Brooke SHields who is a lot older than kh looks beautiful and radiant, with two children, AJ is beyond gorgeous with a MUCH fuller schedule and more children…gwen stefani…beautiful and vibrant young mother. Only kh, and I mean ONLY kh looks like a wreck….well, BS looks like a wreck too……..
Libraesque2007
Feb 4, 2008 at 1:19 pm
don’t know about the NK thing….I could look it up, but I’m kinda busy @ work today
Battlemama
Feb 4, 2008 at 1:25 pm
Someone posted an article on here about how people don’t want a MTV (?) video of Ledger doing drugs to be aired. They said it would be in bad taste, and I agree.
Apparently, Ms. Holmes even logged in her protest about that video being aired on TV.
So, it does exist. Whether you can view it or not is another story.
I will try to find the link later. I have to get back to work as well!!
Libraesque2007
Feb 4, 2008 at 1:51 pm
WOOOOOW
check THIS out. I guess this IS how you guide around a mentally unstable individual!!! SAME GRIP!!!!!
http://dlisted.com/node/22817#comments
taralexis
Feb 4, 2008 at 2:15 pm
You can find the video on youtube.
It isn’t that incriminating though!
To me it is sad that someone with all of the resources at his fingertips felt that the only thing that would make him feel better was drugs.
I feel that there isn’t a whole lot anyone could have done to help him, you really need to help yourself! Intervention doesn’t always mean healing!
As far as the wrist holding, my husband does that a lot! I think it is more of a control thing! Who knows-maybe I’m more mentally unstable than I think!!!!
From my classroom
Feb 4, 2008 at 4:16 pm
It’s fashion week in New York now and KH is not in any pix.
I know, I may over think this, still I think she’s depressed.
leo
Feb 4, 2008 at 5:09 pm
Libra—Don’t know how I missed this one last week but this one “has your name on it”.
http://www.celebitchy.com/9028/tom_cruise_had_his_private_jet_save_an_injured_hawk_maybe/
ng
Feb 4, 2008 at 9:06 pm
I think she is also depressed. Mary Kate’s sister Ashley was sitting front row at one of the Fashion Week’s shows. I think Katie’s bubble burst and she is not excited and beaming about her career. I am not happy this is happening but it might make her realize that she might actually have to have real acting talent to make it to the long haul. Hollywood is a tough town. I mean, look at Lindsey Lohan, I think I read somewhere that she used to say she was the most talented actress in her age range working. She used to go to restaurants and night clubs where she knew the press would be. Lohan was clearly ADDICTED to attention. The same goes for Briteny Spears and Paris Hilton. I mean every night they were seen buying coffee or desserts at Pinkberry. Don’t they have an expresso machine at home? Can’t they order in? No, because then they wouldn’t be photographed. The hardest thing about celebrity is when you are no longer in demand. That is too much for some people to handle. They get paid a ridiculous amount of money and they should invest it and not snort it up their nose because you don’t know how long you will be in demand.
I mean, even if Katie and Cruise get divorced and she gets a decent settlement,unless they are married 10 years I doubt she will walk away a very wealthy woman. The problem with her current lifestyle is that the plane belongs to Cruise, the friends, the connection, the influence. When they split up I don’t think she will be able to adjust to a realistic lifestlye. Look at Marla Maples, Donald Trump’s ex wife. When they got married she immediately was seen wearing a very expensive fur coat to a baseball game and it was a warm afternoon in New York. She was photographed at Mar a lago, in his plane, helicopter, in his Trump Tower, etc. When they got divorced she moved to Los Angeles and put several states between them because she knew the people in New York were going to side with The Donald. The same will happen with Katie. People will side with Cruise because even if he loses popularity he still has more wealth than Katie. I don’t see this couple staying together 10 years. Katie’s mother said she was a very head strong child. I bet Katie will get payback when Suri grows up and she will be a head strong child. I think Katie is not the little mouse Cruise thought she was. She looks like she is a very opinated person and that is probably frustrating to Cruise.
ng
Feb 4, 2008 at 9:46 pm
http://www.splashnewsonline.com/
According to SplashOnline Jessica Alba’s new movie BOMBED because it only brought in 13 million. Can you image how Katie must feel about Mad Money’s total take of what 7-9 million. In Hollywood circles, that is VERY BAD. Hollywood is about beauty, talent, and MONEY. You have to be able to bring one of these things to the table or you are OUT. You get few chances to go up to bat. Three strikes and you are OUT!
Battlemama
Feb 5, 2008 at 9:40 am
What Leo, no pics of the poor hawk!! I am sorry, but this is ridiculous from a man desperately trying to regain some of his reputation. I doubt he really cares about his beard, I mean, wife. I agree with the article that when you take Cruise’s rescues all together, there is something fishy.
I usually think celebs helping when they can is great, but every time I hear about Cruise doing something, it is so…unbelievable. Especially considering he only does dramatic things to help anyone. I am sure in LA alone, he could go to the local soup kitchen and help out, throw a party for the homeless, maybe hirer some of those homeless to do some work for him, buy clothes for the needy, etc., etc., etc.
In terms of Katie’s depression, I think she is finally realizing that she is not going to be in the limelight as an actress or fashion model and the female half of a ‘Golden Couple’ like Nicole was. I am sure it also upsets her that Nicole came out her contract or marriage riding a great wave. Katie produced the bio kid, unlike Nicole, and she is tumbling in the surf. (I have no doubt Katie compares herself to Nicole. She is reminded of her when she sees Connor and Bella. And now Nicole is the one getting attention and mag covers for being preggo and not her.)
Katie bought into all this and she is earning her reward. She should have realized the gamble she was taking. Also, she knew what she was signing Suri up for the rest of her life. I can’t imagine how KH is living with the Scientology Princess idea that she helped to groom and create.
I wonder if Katie is crying, as the GH article says she is, because of the Scientology Princess idea or because KH herself really isn’t an important part of the Scientology Princess plans for something other than for her womb. I also wonder if she will soon be cut-off slowly from Suri; thus, ending her as MOM. (Well, she did it to Nicole and so she should have seen that one coming. She wasn’t even married or had Suri when she began helping with that one. It amazes me how these dingbats always go along with these things, think it won’t happen to them, and then boo-hoo when it starts happening to them.)
Battlemama
Feb 5, 2008 at 9:44 am
Hey ladies, I just wanted to remind you if you are in one of those states today participating in Super Tuesday to go out and vote. This Primary is an important step to choosing our next President.
To those of you who aren’t, have a great day free of ‘lesser than the two evils’ choices!!!
Battlemama
Feb 5, 2008 at 10:10 am
No one has posted this yet. Katie is not the innocent victim in this relationship:
http://justjared.buzznet.com/2008/02/03/tomkat-joans-on-third/#more-23790
ng
Feb 5, 2008 at 10:19 am
I am in one of those states that will be going out to vote today in Super Tuesday. I’m in sunny Los Angeles, California. However, I voted via Absentee Ballot about 3 weeks ago. I’m a Republican who voted for Guiliani (who as you know dropped out already) but I believe Hillary Clinton will win the primary and possibly become the next president of the United States. Its just a feeling I have. We’ll see… There is a lot of excitement in the local news, communities, cities out here in Southern California. This election is a big deal here.
ng
Feb 5, 2008 at 10:51 am
Look at this link from the Los Angeles Times
newspaper, article on Scientology:
http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-scientology5feb05,0,2136420.story
Libraesque2007
Feb 5, 2008 at 11:46 am
Leo, I saw that article and I almost CHOKED!!!
I googled “hawk sanctuaries” in Colorado…guess what…. there aren’t any and it appears they RIPPED OFF that story from that hawk that got injured in NY
PATHETIC!!!! And celb i t c h y “closes” their comment section (WTF!!) so I wasn’t able to comment on that a s s i n i n e story. At this point NO ONE believes the little tom who cried wolf. He has so many rescue stories it’s a JOKE……now this??? HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!
MAMACITA, THANK YOU FOR YOUR POST ABOUT VOTING!!!!!! We are experiencing history here peeps, very exciting time we are living in!!!!!!
Libraesque2007
Feb 5, 2008 at 11:48 am
okay….did anyone see 20/20 last night re: Natalie Holloway.
SO disturbing
leo
Feb 5, 2008 at 12:35 pm
saw 20/20 last night. That “kid” is one arrogant SOB. After watching, I don’t think the video will be enough to get him. I say this because he lied about the identity of the friend that dumped her body and also about making a phone call from the pool area at the Marriott. Yesterday, I read that phone records had already been checked for this phone a couple of years ago and no calls were made during the evening/early morning hours. Personally, I think his dad helped him dump her body. I also think there is more to the story than her having a “seizure” because he kept stating in the videos that he sure was lucky that her body wasn’t found. This tells me that her body would show she was murdered. Just my opinion.
BTW, the following link says exactly what we’ve all been saying for a year now about Tom and Katie using Suri for publicity.
http://deseretnews.com/dn/view/0,5143,695249025,00.html
Vianne
Feb 5, 2008 at 12:45 pm
Katie and Kirstie have the same smile/smirk!
http://www.nypost.com/seven/02052008/gossip/pagesix/mankinds_sure_up_her_alley_834708.htm
My comment to Kirstie: Go save a hawk!
Vianne
Feb 5, 2008 at 12:51 pm
leo: That author must have been lurking around this site’s comment section! Maybe she’s one of us!
Libraesque2007
Feb 5, 2008 at 2:20 pm
OMG, LEo I thought the EXACT same thing, his
d o u c h e b a g father came and dumped the body. During those tapes….the way he was talking….it seemed like he KNEW he was being recorded….that’s the sense I got. ANd who better than an attorney to tell his son that he should lie about the friend and the call to make it seem like the whole thing was a lie!!!
Libraesque2007
Feb 5, 2008 at 2:22 pm
regardless if he’s convicted…the world really will be his h e l l for the rest of his life…..he’ll NEVER be able to get a decent job, a decent girlfriend/wife,etc……
ng
Feb 5, 2008 at 3:19 pm
Libraesque2007: I agree. Life will never be the same for him again. I remember that line in the West Side Story after the Jets and the Sharks rumbled and Riff and Bernardo were killed, one of the gang member, Baby Face says “I wish it were yesterday.” Meaning he wishes that day had not happened but there are things we can never take back. The consequences remain forever. That kid should be convicted and pay for his crime.
ng
Feb 5, 2008 at 3:20 pm
I’m referring to the 60’s classic movie “West Side Story.” It was a good, tearjerker movie.
Libraesque2007
Feb 5, 2008 at 3:49 pm
I agree. I think the thousands of people who participated in the search for her need to be reimbursed for their efforts by him and his family. If I were one of those people….like the divers, etc….I would go and kick his f ^ c k i n g A S S!!!!
Libraesque2007
Feb 5, 2008 at 3:55 pm
actually I’d like to kick his smug a s s just because. And his father!!!! wanting to SUE everyone!!!! WHAT is WRONG with people???!!!! Well like I’ve said before…you can run but you can’t hide from the good Lord above
Battlemama
Feb 5, 2008 at 4:00 pm
Libra: These kinds of idiots always find someone who will date and marry them. I remember reading somewhere of a foreign woman who was trying to get permission to marry a guy on death row. She said she loved him. She had been writing him for several years before the request for marriage. (Although, the guy would be the perfect spouse: She wouldn’t have to deal with him in the home.)
This woman is one of numerous examples of women and sometimes men who fall for people like this.
My question for this guy: If she died from natural causes or a seizure, why not call the police any way or say what happened? You only hide a body when you have something to hide. I find it interesting how they kept going after him. They must have had something on him.
How did Natalie meet this guy anyway?
I feel for the girl’s family because they have not known all these years. That, to me, would be worse than knowing what happened.
Libraesque2007
Feb 5, 2008 at 4:28 pm
I said he would never be able to marry a DECENT person!!!!!!!!!
she met him at a bar.
exactly…..I think he definitely has something to hide. I mean obviously. Did you see the way he blinked quickly each time he was asked about killing her, etc…..any body ,anguage expert would say that was a clear sign he was lying
Battlemama
Feb 5, 2008 at 4:46 pm
I reread your message. You did say someone decent.
She was 18 years old. What the heck was she doing at a bar? Jeez, i am beginning to think she was a bit dumb in this situation. She didn’t deserve to be killed or hurt, but she does share some of the responsibility for the situation she ended up in. I think some people made some bad decisions in this situation and unfortunately someone ended up dead. Her parents for sending her unchapheroned to Aruba (I got the impression they weren’t there); whoever the adult in charge was, if any; Natalie for going to bars and leaving with someone she didn’t know; etc.
Yes, the guy still needs to be punished too. I wonder if this was accidental murder rather than pre-meditated and he just got scared and covered it up.
Libraesque2007
Feb 5, 2008 at 5:08 pm
the drinking age in Aruba is 18, the rest I can’t really comment on
Battlemama
Feb 5, 2008 at 6:01 pm
Interesting! Any way, that guy has a lot of questions I am sure her parents want answered. If he is guilty, he needs to be punished. There is no excuse for the suffering he has caused.
ng
Feb 5, 2008 at 6:46 pm
We are living in historic times:
1. President Bush & Al Gore campaign
2. Los Angeles Riots
3. O.J. Simpson trial and riots
4. Los Angeles Latino Mayor (first in 133 years)
5. California Governor Grey Davis RECALLED
6. Sept 11, 2001 Terrorist Attack
7. Nancy Pelosi, First women Speaker House
8. Tsuanmi disaster
9. California Senators Boxer and Feinstein
(first women senators).
10. Hillary Clinton - First woman U.S. president????
…and there are a lot of other milestones that have happened. We are living in historic times.
Battlemama
Feb 5, 2008 at 6:55 pm
Condolezzi Rice–1st Minority Woman Secretary of State
Colin POwell–1st Minority Secretary of State
President Clinton–2nd U.S. President Impeached
Obama–first African American President????
Mitt Romney–first Mormon President?????
There are a lot of people who don’t want either Clinton again. Curious as to which is really running for office this time.
Battlemama
Feb 5, 2008 at 6:56 pm
NG, you are right, these are historic times!! It is fun watching it all unfold.
ng
Feb 5, 2008 at 7:40 pm
Battlemama: Even BLOGGING on the Internet is historic. A person can be in California and someone else in New York or Spain. Wow!
It will be a LONG night to see who wins the Democratic nomination and then the presidency. This is an exciting night!!!
ng
Feb 6, 2008 at 12:19 am
Hillary Clinton wins California. I predict she will win the presidency but it will be a slow dance with John McCain before she walks into the White House.
ng
Feb 6, 2008 at 1:03 am
Wow! Look at this picture of Nicole. She sure has come a long way. Notice how when people have make overs they usually go from curly hair to straight, flat ironed hair.
http://okmagazine.com/style/gallery/3671/1/Style-Evolution:-Nicole-Kidman
toledo fan
Feb 6, 2008 at 1:11 am
been reading all your comments but been too busy to blog- lots going on huh? was watching primary results (have always voted but not usually the primary-this time I will for sure- first time in a long time I have been really following closely-this will be an exciting year) I was flipping channels- found a program- think it was VH1’s 40 greatest pranks- they showed the clip of TC getting squirted by that reporter’s fake microphone- it was hilarious! then they mimicked him chastising the fake reporter and showed the clip a few more times- all the while making fun of him and mocking him- how he went from a fake laugh to a scowl. I think he showed a bit of his real self there- nasty,condescending, with no sense of humor. loved it!!!!
just a quick comment on the AJ/BP, TC/KH debate. I don’t think they can be compared- they are worlds apart- separately and as couples.
one couple is generous, genuine, loving, affectionate to each other and the children, giving of themselves and their time, etc, etc. the other is none of the above. I could say tons more on this issue but you can guess where I stand. I try not to judge anyone’s personal life unless it affects children- then my blood pressure goes up!
lots of talk here on the “Chris K got her pregnant?” bomb. but no one knows anything for sure because the family- like I said before- is VERY closed mouth- especially now! I really feel for her Mom!!! the only thing I do know for sure- Chris K is NOT Suri’s father.
Battlemama
Feb 6, 2008 at 10:01 am
Well, ng, if you are correct, enjoy your money now. Because Senator Clinton has said she will garnish EVERYONE’s wages to pay for universal health care to all. In coutries where they have this universal health, they already pay at least 40-50% of their income in taxes and they don’t have the problem with illegals that we have. So, we will pay more!!!
Also, the quality of health care is not as great here.
Libraesque2007
Feb 6, 2008 at 5:16 pm
mama, where on earth did you hear that about peoples wages? Garnishing wages I believe is court ordered so that doesn’t make sense to me
ng
Feb 6, 2008 at 6:17 pm
I’m a Republican but the horse I betted on, Guiliani dropped out AFTER I mailed in my absentee ballot 3-4 weeks ago. And so I think Hillary will be the winner in November after a SLOW DANCE with McCain. I really think people are looking for an agent of change and whoever is able to articulate that vision will be the winner. Of course, you all know that spin doctors, marketing, etc. all play a role in getting your vote.
We’ll see what happens in November…
candice
Feb 6, 2008 at 6:55 pm
Heath Ledger died of accidental overdose on prescription drugs. I was so glad to read that he didnt commit suicide although it makes it very sad that he is gone but never wanted to be.
ng
Feb 6, 2008 at 7:21 pm
Candice: That is the official statement but the reality is that he also dabbled in illegal drugs: heroin, cocaine, and other dangerous substances. I will never understand WHY people that have so much going for them gamble this way with their life.
ng
Feb 6, 2008 at 7:26 pm
Candice: That is the official statement but the reality is that he also dabbled in illegal drugs: heroin, cocaine, and other dangerous substances. I will never understand WHY people that have so much going for them gamble this way with their life this way. They say he didn’t die of this but you never know. He could have died accidentally but if he was using the other drugs I mentioned it was a matter of time before he died from these drugs.
candice
Feb 6, 2008 at 7:58 pm
Apparantley he gave up illegal drugs for the sake of his daughter. All the current drug talk surrounding him is just speculation which the tabloids use to make money. Not much was said about it before he died. But all i was saying was I was glad to read that he didnt commit suicide. There was no illegal drugs in his system. Im sure that is a great relief for his family and maybe one day for his daughter. Who knows why people turn to drugs. Pressure?? Stress?? We will never know unless we walk in their shoes.
ng
Feb 6, 2008 at 8:05 pm
Candice: I agree with you that its a relief to a family, a mother and father that their son did not commit suicide because that brings on a lot of issues regarding family history, eternity, sin, etc. I don’t know their religion but I think death is the final act and you don’t want your last act to be suicide. Everything in this life is temporary. Everything passes. I always remind myself of this: joy, pain, fears, etc., and so when I’m happy I tell myself enjoy it because this will pass. When I’m worried about something I tell myself, everything is temporary, HANG ON, this will also pass.”
Sometimes people forget that everything in this life is temporary and so you have to know what your purpose in life is and invest in that. Material things and money are very important to a certain degree but they are not everything. Life is a balancing act.
ng
Feb 6, 2008 at 8:20 pm
I bet Katie’s parents are probably MORTIFIED that she is married to a Scienotoligst especially now that that YouTube video was leaked because lets face it, SOMETIMES we do care about what our friends will think especially when what they are thinking is true; your daughter has married for $$$ and sold her soul to a Scientologist and now your granddaughter Suri will probably never hear about God, Jesus, the Holy Spirit, the Bible, scriptures, all of these things will be foreign to her. As a matter of fact, she will probably be suspcious to these topics because they will be introduced to her in such a negative way. She will devote her life to XENU and clearing theatan, etc. What a waste of a soul. When I see Suri I feel so sorry for this little girl. She does not the journey that awaits her.
ng
Feb 6, 2008 at 10:35 pm
Is it just me or is anyone else having problems connecting to this site?
There are new pictures of TOMKAT in New York.
http://justjared.buzznet.com/gallery/photos.php?yr=2008&mon=02&evt=holmes-malawi&pic=katie-holmes-night-to-benefit-raising-malawai-unicef-08.jpg
She doesn’t look happy to me. She looks very different from 2-3 weeks ago when they were arriving to New York and she was about to begin promoting her movie Mad Movie. She looked very excited and happy. You can wear the best makeup, dress, hairstyle but when you are not really happy, it SHOWS on your face. She looks fragile to me and it looks like whoever made this dress (I don’t think a designer dress) picked up the hemline right before she walked out the door. I think this dress is one of Katie’s designs. And so I guess they are back in New York City. Cruise looks like he’s picked up a few pounds. And he also doesn’t look really happy. He looks like he’s TRYING to look happy, life is good.
ng
Feb 6, 2008 at 11:01 pm
Probably Cruise took Katie to New York for this week’s Fashion Week (although its almost over), to cheer her up. Posh was since this morning at a Toronto airport and so she’s already left New York. And that all important photograph of celebrities sitting in the front row has already been taken of Posh, Claudia Shiffer, and Dita. And so I think Katie was originally planning on going to New York but there was a setback in their plans. I doubt it had anything to do with Heath Ledger. Clearly, Cruise and Katie are trying to do DAMAGE CONTROL and are showing up at events (Heath’s second Los Angeles memorial and now Madonna’s fundraiser) where they look like concerned, compassionate citizens of the world.
ng
Feb 6, 2008 at 11:04 pm
Probably Cruise took Katie to New York for this week’s Fashion Week (although its almost over), to cheer her up. Posh was seen this morning at a Toronto airport and so she’s already left New York. And that all important photograph of celebrities sitting in the front row has already been taken of Posh, Claudia Shiffer, and Dita. And so I think Katie was originally planning on going to New York but there was a setback in their plans. I doubt it had anything to do with Heath Ledger. Clearly, Cruise and Katie are trying to do DAMAGE CONTROL and are showing up at events (Heath’s second Los Angeles memorial and now Madonna’s fundraiser) where they look like concerned, compassionate citizens of the world.
Battlemama
Feb 6, 2008 at 11:14 pm
“One of the big questions surrounding Hillary Clinton’s universal health care plan has been the question of enforcement. That is: How will she mandate that all Americans pay for their health care?
On ABC’s “This Week” on Sunday, Clinton provided some clues to how she might do so. “We will have an enforcement mechanism, whether it’s [garnishing people's wages] or it’s some other mechanism through the tax system or automatic enrollments,” she said.
Clinton further noted that “there are a number of mechanisms” that could be used, including “going after people’s wages, automatic enrollment.”
Here is the link: http://www.cbsnews.com/blogs/2008/02/04/politics/horserace/entry3786292.shtml
ng
Feb 6, 2008 at 11:21 pm
We are definitley at a crossroads and I hope the best person for the presidency wins. There are not a lot of exciting choices.
Battlemama
Feb 6, 2008 at 11:37 pm
I am trying to post a link for more articles about the Health care. Basically, Clinton is going to force everyone to get health insurance either willingly or by ‘garnishing’ wages.
Katie is definately not enjoying herself nor TC. I wonder what else is stressing those two and how close Morton hit to home with his book.
ng
Feb 7, 2008 at 2:03 am
I think Morton’s book hit a home run. I don’t think Cruise will recover from this because one thing about videos, films, books once they are released they are out of your control, people can see/read them again and again and decide for themselves what kind of person you are and what your agenda is. I am betting that this is one of many things that are depressing Katie Holmes.
I see pictures of Suri and I just do not understand HOW a mother can subject her child to this life. This is something I could not do and could not even imagine being in this position.
By the way, the church of Scientology kept saying they were going to file a lawsuit against Morton for writing this book but I have not heard of any lawsuits being filed? If the COS does this it will only fan the fires and it will really become a subject of conversation the way the YOU TUBE video was.
I read the Morton book and I don’t think there was anything in it that was malicious or vicious. It seem to convey things that seem factual about Cruise and Katie.
And the COS seems to say they are happy that a lot of people saw the YOUTUBE video YET they kept threatening people to take down the video because they were violating copyright laws. I think they are like the boy that cried wolf, they won’t do anything about this book because it more factual than defamation of character.
ng
Feb 7, 2008 at 2:12 am
http://justjared.buzznet.com/gallery/photos.php?yr=2008&mon=02&evt=holmes-malawi&pic=katie-holmes-night-to-benefit-raising-malawai-unicef-05.jpg
Katie has lost more weight and Cruise seems to have gained a few pounds. I guess he needs to be “cleared” of the stress and disappointment he’s feeling. Some people GAIN/LOSE weight when they are depressed, under stress, pressure, etc. He looks like he’s putting on weight. I bet they had deals that they projected to bring in $$$ that fell through.
Cruise went from being the “biggest movie star in the world” to being one of the most disgusting humans on this planet.
catinthehat
Feb 7, 2008 at 4:49 am
That red dress with the gold shoes are seriously TACKY. And she is just disappearing weight wise. This is the first time I’ve ever seen these two photographed at an event to raise awareness about Africa . . . a tad late, I’m afraid, for me to buy that they have any remote interest in alleviating the suffering that is going on there. What’s next, a trip to a refugee camp in designer camouflage??
ng
Feb 7, 2008 at 8:34 am
I wouldn’t be surprised if this dress she is wearing is one of her own designs. I just can’t see this as being something from Azai, Armani, Calvin Klein, etc. It does look tacky and looks like one of the first dresses I made in Home Economics when I was in the 10th grade in high school. The hemline looks like it just went up minutes before she walked out the door. Although I think Katie and Suri both look good in red.
ng
Feb 7, 2008 at 8:59 am
In a matter of 2-3 weeks, Katie went from THIS:
http://justjared.buzznet.com/tags/katie-holmes/page/3/
TO THIS
(the excitement in her eyes is GONE):
http://www.celebrity-gossip.net/celebrities/hollywood/tomkat-hit-madonna-charity-event-203193/
Clearly they are TRYING to do damage control to their image. The damage has been done, I don’t think Cruise will ever return to his glory days. Just like Michael Jackson will not return to those heady days of Billie Jean, Beat It, etc.
ng
Feb 7, 2008 at 9:10 am
Cruise has gained a few pounds recently. I think all of the backlash has gotten to him.
http://www.splashnewsonline.com/index.php?style=picture&id=80901&img=uploads/2008/02/splashnews_spl17256_056.jpg&title=No%20Pregnancy%20Rumors%20Here%20Guys!
He’s aged recently. In this picture it looks like he’s had his hair colored and is wearing a girdle or something around his torso. She on the other hand has lost weight and does not look as excited as she did right before she began her Mad Money promotion. She didn’t know what laid ahead (bad press and bad movie performance).
Libraesque2007
Feb 7, 2008 at 11:05 am
WOW, he looks AWFUL. He couldn’t take 5 minutes to shave before he put on his gay velvet jacket to go to this event??
ANd I find it so completely absurd that he’s 5′7 and she’s 5′9, yet he’s barely shorter than her when she’s got, what, 5 inch heels on???
ridiculous
these two are CLOWNS
Battlemama
Feb 7, 2008 at 11:31 am
I am not sure which is brighter: her dress or her shoes?? I am guessing the shoes are to match the hunk of gold on her wrist. Either way, they don’t look great together. I thought she had all these fashion consultants at her disposal or is a case of the ‘Emperor’s new clothes’ where the yes-women tell her she looks great no matter what.
The dress has definate angles and they aren’t soft angles either. Is that the latest fashion? It does look like a home ec. project. Again, I thought she had all this money and consultants. I doubt she is sewing this herself.
In terms of Cruise, is he auditioning for the role of Hugh Hefner or something? That is my impression of these suits he wears.
I guess to contrast these two: AJ is in Iraq visiting the troops and refugees. She is putting her feet where her mouth is. No pics yet, so she can go without cameras. (Yes, I do recognize her work. I still don’t think she is better than anyone else.)
I guess we should be praising these guys for at least showing up for a ‘benefit’ dinner and KH using a benefit like this to parade as a fashion model. She is actually standing tall with her shoulders back for once. So she can walk without slouching.
You can tell when he leaves her in the spotlight to be photographed alone that he is trying to ’show off’ her dress. So, I agree that this is KH’s design they are debuting. Again, this seems a bit tacky for a so-called charity event…almost narcissitic on both of their parts. Are they there because they care about Malawi or to model fashion that no one else would put their label on?
I think SPLASH said it best: Her styles keep getting older and older. How sad that she is 29 going on 44.
lemon227
Feb 7, 2008 at 12:25 pm
With these two, looking pretty rough in my opinion, I guess desperate times call for desperate actions. I agree with Catinthehat that these two might try just about anything to get some so-called “good” publicity. Pathetic!!
ng
Feb 7, 2008 at 5:53 pm
Here’s an interesting photo of Madonna, Rosie O’Donnell, Cruise, Katie, and Lourdes.
http://www.people.com/people/gallery/0,,20176587_3,00.html
I guess Madonna didn’t care as long as they contribute to this fundraiser and Cruise and Katie are desperately trying to appear anywhere that makes them look like saviors of humanity.
Yep, I suspect this dress is something she designed. I think it looks tacky but I like the color red on her. Madonna has definitely had plastic surgery done on her face. They are in a business where image and talent reign surpreme only image might keep you there a bit longer than if you were ordinary looking.
From my classroom
Feb 7, 2008 at 6:20 pm
The red dress is by Alexander McQueen, according to X17 online.
I have to be honest with you, I have absolutely no idea who the designer is.
And I don’t like those golden shoes, very very odd, neither when her bob was so glued down. When her bob goes loose and fringes, it didn’t look that bad.
Also, Madonna’s fake British accent is revolting.
From my classroom
Feb 7, 2008 at 6:58 pm
Just heard this from FOX news, the sound bytes of Madonna in her fake accent talking about how poetic that they are not in America. Geez, doesn’t she know that the Gucci flagship store that she promotes under the UN-fund raiser disguise still has to pay taxes to the US?
catinthehat
Feb 7, 2008 at 7:07 pm
From http://www.sfgate.com –
The party included a lavish auction, during which Cruise bid $100,000 for a sports package that included the privilege of hanging out at Yankee Stadium with Alex Rodriguez and a private hour playing soccer with David Beckham. The actor lost out to a bidder who pledged $350,000.
However, Cruise didn’t let the disappointment ruin his evening and praised Madonna for her efforts. He says, “It was an extraordinary evening. The whole evening was quite moving,” adding the event was “an absolute necessity.”
GIVE ME A BREAK!! There is NO WAY he gives a hoot about the suffering in Africa. He’es a little f*****g late for that bandwagon. When has he EVER expressed ANY interest in Africa? NEVER! It’s all about being photographed with that idiotic grin on his face. Katie just looks like a store mannequin from Barneys . . . but with less personality. I’m surprised he didn’t try to add a plug for COS being able to solve that continent’s problems!
catinthehat
Feb 7, 2008 at 7:09 pm
Come to think of it, I’m shocked that neither one of these morons was quoted as saying that the evening was “magical.”
LoneStar
Feb 7, 2008 at 9:54 pm
I agree, Cat. These losers weren’t doing any of this humanitarian crap until the caca hit the fan for them recently. Why don’t they host their own charity event instead of riding the coattails of Madonna–or better yet, go to Africa and get their hands dirty by actually DOING SOMETHING. Lord knows their schedules aren’t that busy—nobody’s gonna be beating their door down for acting parts right now…
And what is with TC bidding on the buddy time with A-Rod and Beckham? Just give the freaking money to the charity. He can hang out with these two any time–wtf? These Hollywood people are so full of themselves it makes me sick. A percentage of their incomes could feed the whole continent of Africa. The cost of Suri’s rundown, worn to death silver shoes could feed a family for a long time.
Hate KH’s dress. The home-ec comments said it all.
LoneStar
Feb 7, 2008 at 10:02 pm
The Emperor’s New Clothes comment that Battlemama mentioned cracked me up. I can just hear the sycophants: “Oh yes, Mr. Cruise, velvet really suits you. It doesn’t make you look gay at ALL. And neither does bidding $100,000 to hang out with two guys.”
ng
Feb 7, 2008 at 11:17 pm
Cruise will never again return to his glory days and he knows it. I’m not being mean but you can feel the seasons have click for these people and his time as being the greatest movie star on the planet has passed. He’s revealed himself and it didn’t look pretty and celebrity, fame, etc. is all about image, talent, and beauty.
ng
Feb 7, 2008 at 11:25 pm
Here’s Kristie Alley giving the photographers “the
finger.” She’s gonna have to go to an audit class to RELEASE the hostility she must be feeling. I wonder how the Church of Scientology feels about this kind of behavior. I mean what is the purpose of “flipping people off?”
http://photo.wenn.com/index.php?ref=EXCL%20kirstie%20allley%20070208&version=int
ng
Feb 7, 2008 at 11:40 pm
http://www.celebrity-gossip.net/celebrities/hollywood/angelina-jolie-hangs-with-troops-203206/
For whatever the reasons, hopefully they are honorable, you have to respect the fact that Angelina is in Iraq if for the simple reason that there are men and women fighting for democracy there. She didn’t have to go over there but she did. I think AFTER she adopted Maddox her perspective in life changed. Yes, sometimes she uses the press but she does shed light on important causes. Pre Maddox and during her Billy Bob period I did not care for Angelina but now she seems “okay.”
candice
Feb 8, 2008 at 12:06 am
I agree NG. She gets her hands dirty although now that the press is there taking pics etc its not going to be as important as it would of been if she did it on the quiet which i think is pretty sad. I also think its great how she shot down the interviewer for asking about her “pregnancy”. She was making sure the trip was not centered around her and that issues need to be addressed other than gossip. I would love to see tomkat in africa addressing important issues instead of just at a fundrasier. Although you cant really look past a donation of $100,000 (and im sure the people it helps couldnt give a hoot where it came from) you just have to wonder if it was done for the right reasons.
LoneStar
Feb 8, 2008 at 12:19 am
I have never seen a picture of AJ shopping for clothing. Seen a million of KH shopping. Seen a million pics of KH helping others. Seen none of KH helping others. AJ is in Iraq right now. KH is probably in Barney’s.
candice
Feb 8, 2008 at 12:21 am
VERY VERY TRUE LONESTAR!!
LoneStar
Feb 8, 2008 at 12:21 am
Oops, I meant Seen a million pics of AJ helping others. But then anyone would know that was a typo.
ng
Feb 8, 2008 at 12:48 am
It is interesting how both Madonna and Cruise reached the pinacle of their careers, both became successful in their own right and both realized that material things make you happy to a certain extent but they both pursued something spritual. Madonna pursued Kaballa and Cruise Scientology. Both have also struggled in their personal relationships. Cruise has 3 marriages under his belt and Madonna many relationships and 2 marriages under her belt and both are rumored to be bisexual or gay.
I find it amusing that Rose O’Donnell used to pretend to have a crush on Tom Cruise knowing that she was gay and possibly he is gay. Hollywood is a strange town.
catinthehat
Feb 8, 2008 at 4:51 am
AJ and KH are totally on opposite ends of the spectrum. AJ can talk intelligently for hours about refugee issues around the world while KH can’t even make it thru a 5-minute interview on entertainment tonight!
Lilianne
Feb 8, 2008 at 6:54 am
I agree with most of what people are saying here. That red dress isn’t particularly attractive and kind of looks like it was thrown together at the last minute. I do think her hair and make up look pretty though. TC is another matter….he has apparantly lost whatever appeal he once had and in that suit he reminds me of the Mad Hatter from Alice in Wonderland…all he needs is the top hat.
I agree that the charitible contributions and sudden interest in Africa seem to be a little convenient given the current feeling about this couple but at least they are doing something good even if it is maybe for selfish reasons. I am sure that the people that money will help don’t care about the reason it is given.
Lilianne
Feb 8, 2008 at 6:56 am
I do really hope that they arent helping others for selfish reasons and that they are really interested in making things better for others.
Vianne
Feb 8, 2008 at 10:35 am
He’s looking more and more gay…
http://www.entertainmentwise.com/news/40442/cher-yes-i-dated-tom-cruise
‘Cher has confirmed reports that she once dated Tom Cruise.
The 61-year-old happily admitted to Good Morning America host Cynthia McFadden that Tom was her toy-boy back in the 80s when he was “just the most adorable man you can imagine.”
Despite this, Tom apparently failed to impress Cher’s son, Elijah Allman, who has publicly slammed the actor.
He told Us Weekly in 2006: “He was totally different. We lived with him for a couple of years.
“(Now) he shouldn’t be trying to help his career by talking about his personal life. People aren’t buying into his whole act.”
Cher - who announced her retirement from touring in 2005 - will star in a song-and-dance spectacular starting in May at the Colosseum in Caesars Palace, Las Vegas.’
Lilianne
Feb 8, 2008 at 10:41 am
Am I alone in thinking that TC and Cher make an unlikely couple? I wonder if their relationship broke up because her son didn’t like TC? I had no idea they even dated.
Vianne
Feb 8, 2008 at 10:59 am
I was surprised, too, when I read it. We need a timeline here, though. If he joined the cult when he was with 1st wife, Mimi, then divorced Mimi for 2nd wife, Nicole, then yada yada onto Katie, then this must have been before Mimi, but he wasn’t a scientologist then? Hmmm….
Libraesque2007
Feb 8, 2008 at 11:09 am
are you kidding….being with Cher is every gays wet dream!!!!!!
Libraesque2007
Feb 8, 2008 at 11:18 am
she isn’t listed on his nndb page,
Girlfriend: Melissa Gilbert (actress, together 1982)
Girlfriend: Rebecca De Mornay (actress, cohabited 1983-85)
Wife: Mimi Rogers (actress, m. 9-May-1987, div. Jan-1990)
but he’s on hers
Boyfriend: Rob Camilletti (bartender, b. 1964, dated in mid 1980s)
Boyfriend: Val Kilmer (actor, dated in early 1980s)
Boyfriend: Tom Cruise (actor, dated in early 1980s)
Boyfriend: Michael Bolton (singer-songwriter, dated in 1986)
SO……her son is claiming they lived with HIM for a few years……..imdb claims they were together in the early 80’s……….he said in an interview he had 25 cents in his pocket when he got the role of TAPS……in 1981
Vianne
Feb 8, 2008 at 11:21 am
He was with Cher before he was a scientologist, during his “Top Gun” days, and even went with Cher to the 1985 Academy Awards.
I agree, Libra! And on another topic - that Selma Blair post had me thinking - she and Tom would have made a cute couple, and she doesn’t look like she would tower over him!
Libraesque2007
Feb 8, 2008 at 11:22 am
yet he was with Melissa Gilbert in 82, lived with RD from 83-85………….something AS USUAL with this guy is not adding up
He was EIGHTEEN in 1980…..Cher was THIRTY-FOUR
Vianne
Feb 8, 2008 at 11:33 am
Want to pass on this link: Not TomKat , but politics. Worthwhile read.
http://www.usweekly.com/skin-deep.htm
Vianne
Feb 8, 2008 at 11:40 am
The 1985 Academy Awards was on March 24, 1986, so maybe it was right after RD?
ng
Feb 8, 2008 at 11:55 am
Don’t forget Cher also dated David Geffen and today he is a know homosexual.
Libraesque2007
Feb 8, 2008 at 12:10 pm
WELL….he married mimi in May of 87…….so unless he moved out from RD and immediately set up house with Cher….then at some point met and dated mimi…..it doesn’t add up that they lived together for “a couple years”
Vianne
Feb 8, 2008 at 1:04 pm
I have a comment in moderation limbo for awhike now. Maybe he meant they lived with Tom for a couple months.
Vianne
Feb 8, 2008 at 1:05 pm
correction: awhile NOT awhike!
Vianne
Feb 8, 2008 at 1:06 pm
You’re right. Wonder if Cher ever complained about his lack of sex drive like Mimi did. I laughed at the phrase “boy toy” used with little Tom.
I don’t know if this will go through. I copied and pasted my comment that is awaiting moderation.
Vianne
Feb 8, 2008 at 1:10 pm
This site is irritating. What is wrong with my comments? I was trying to talk with Libra!
Libraesque2007
Feb 8, 2008 at 1:42 pm
and didn’t he live on the east coast when he first broke into films??? Cher lived on the west coast, as far as I know
LoneStar
Feb 8, 2008 at 2:03 pm
Off the topic, but worth a read: study shows that “Sadness may encourage more extravagance”
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080208/ap_on_bi_ge/sadness_spending
Might explain why KH is a permanent fixture in the boutiques…
Battlemama
Feb 8, 2008 at 2:40 pm
Are we now going to discuss who katie has been sleeping with as well?
What was Cher for Cruise any way: a mother? I can see why her son mught have problem with his mother sleeping with someone his own age. I am guessing he is about the same age as Cruise.
toledo fan
Feb 8, 2008 at 2:47 pm
cruise 1962, Elijah Blue 1976
Cher and TC both claim to be diagnosed with
dyslexia- maybe that’s why they “bonded”
Battlemama
Feb 8, 2008 at 2:51 pm
Thanks Toledo.
Here is an interesting blurb from the neice of the Scientology leader. It may give us glimpse into little Suri’s life.
http://dlisted.com/node/23015
toledo fan
Feb 8, 2008 at 2:54 pm
from entertainmentwise.com-
(notice date of article)
[Cher's Son Disses Tom Cruise
And gives him some advice...
By: Lowri Williams on Friday 01st Sep 2006
Photo: Glenn Harris/Photorazzi
The son of pop icon Cher has publicly slammed her ex-lover actor Tom Cruise for his ridiculous public behaviour.
Elijah Blue Allman has advised Cruise to refrain from talking about his personal life in public as his fan base is not falling for it.
Cruise dated Cher in the 1980?s and the couple even lived together for a while, but Allman believes Cruise has significantly changed since then.
Allman said to Us Weekly: "He was totally different. We lived with him for a couple of years.
"(Now) he shouldn't be trying to help his career by talking about his personal life. People aren't buying into his whole act."
Allman is not trying to make any friends, last week while appearing on the Howard Stern show he alleged that he had slept with Paris Hilton and after was forced to scrub down his genitalia with disinfectant in case he caught anything from the promiscuous socialite.]
yeah, Allman’s a class act too- NOT
but this was 2 yrs ago- interesting that it didn’t get a lot of press then.
toledo fan
Feb 8, 2008 at 2:57 pm
wait- this was just before the big cruise “wedding”.
you’d think it would have gotten more attention.
toledo fan
Feb 8, 2008 at 3:03 pm
yeah- I read that on another site a few weeks ago and forgot about it- I was actually hoping it would get more coverage ’cause it really adds support to what other ‘exiled’ members are saying. it’s a CULT!!!
I didn’t think about the ramifications for Suri until others started talking about it here- wow- if my granddaughter was in that situation- I would be in serious counseling or in jail (for murder of her f’d up father!
toledo fan
Feb 8, 2008 at 3:57 pm
well- I should be doing something consturctive on a day off but I’m enjoying this more :)
this from a site called egossip.com;
[Britney Spears vs. Tom Cruise – Who’s the Bigger Tragedy?
Posted on Feb 8 2008 - 8:59am
Britney Spears and Tom Cruise, two of Hollywood's most promising stars in the late 90's and early 2000's, have quickly spiraled out of control, leaving friends, family and fans concerned for their welfare.
While Tom and Britney continue to fight very different battles (Tom Cruise is letting Scientology control his life while Britney is fighting a severe mental illness), it's very clear that these two stars had the world at their fingertips, only to let it slip away.
So who is the bigger disappointment? A 26-year-old struggling to fight the pressures of Hollywood or a 45-year-old father who is not only letting Scientology control his life but has warped his once-adorable wife into a robot-like woman who has little control over her own actions as well?
Let's take a look at Tom and Britney in their prime:
Tom Cruise
Everyone remembers Tom Cruise in Jerry Maguire, right? His charming personality and good looks melted the hearts of women all over the world when he finally said those three little words to Rene Zellweger at the end of the movie: "You complete me."
His unbelievable good looks and incredible talent landed the respected actor roles in hit films like Risky Business, Top Gun, Mission Impossible (and the sequels) and Rain Man. But after Cruise started dating Katie Holmes and practicing Scientology he became a controlling (yet somehow out of control - remember him jumping on Oprah's couch?) man who felt the need to tell others how to live their lives (Brooke Shields to name just one).]
I don’t know if you can compare the two but I agree that both of them have seen the top of their careers and are on the way out- one much faster and more drastic- but both “has-beens”
toledo fan
Feb 8, 2008 at 4:06 pm
ok- this is the LAST one but the only one I found that mentions Cher. now I HAVE to run some errands;
http://movies.go.com/feature?featureid=722612
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